Just because you make movies doesn't mean you have to be "Hollywood"
Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner look like normal people. And they act like regular people. When Ben was with Ms. Lopez, he was pretty boyed up every minute of every day. Thats fine if thats what you want, but does he look like he preferred to live that way? They look very happy together, and like they were meant to be together. I've seen pics of Ben with J.Lo at a Red Sox game, and she looked like she'd rather be at a dinner party. These two look like they are right were they wanted to be.